Tuesday, November 29, 2005
Random Thoughts
My days are starting to get busier with all the tests, quizes, driving, soccer and projects. 4 weeks of 'honeymoon' period in school passes like it hadn't happened yet....sigh i haven relaxed enough, i'm still coming to terms with some of the modules taught and i'm certainly not prepared for any projects/assignments! Arghhh hell man!
The more i look into the mirror the more sick i felt of my hairstyle, hair color, length...everything to do with my hair in fact. The color faded long ago and i look like some golden monkey or ah beng, omg i swear i'm gonna visit the saloon on monday! New hairstyle, color and i'm starting to imagine myself as some big charming star lol....dream on floyd! December's gonna be one hell of a festive month for sure and my bank account's probably gonna suffer a huge decrease in the balance brought down, from all the shopping and partyings! I've already a rough idea the stuffs i wanna splurge on - the list is fucking long for christ's sake! I don't know, it seem wierd for a guy but i love splurging on shopping sprees especially during December, i just can't get enough of it and i would have bought an entire store if i had the money!
Next Saturday's the soccer tourement and i can't wait for it arrive honestly!
My days are starting to get busier with all the tests, quizes, driving, soccer and projects. 4 weeks of 'honeymoon' period in school passes like it hadn't happened yet....sigh i haven relaxed enough, i'm still coming to terms with some of the modules taught and i'm certainly not prepared for any projects/assignments! Arghhh hell man!
The more i look into the mirror the more sick i felt of my hairstyle, hair color, length...everything to do with my hair in fact. The color faded long ago and i look like some golden monkey or ah beng, omg i swear i'm gonna visit the saloon on monday! New hairstyle, color and i'm starting to imagine myself as some big charming star lol....dream on floyd! December's gonna be one hell of a festive month for sure and my bank account's probably gonna suffer a huge decrease in the balance brought down, from all the shopping and partyings! I've already a rough idea the stuffs i wanna splurge on - the list is fucking long for christ's sake! I don't know, it seem wierd for a guy but i love splurging on shopping sprees especially during December, i just can't get enough of it and i would have bought an entire store if i had the money!
Next Saturday's the soccer tourement and i can't wait for it arrive honestly!
posted by mango at 5:47 PM
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Monday, November 28, 2005
Cancer - Me, Myself & I!
So u think astrology, umm should i say horoscope to make it sounds more familiar, is all rubbish and crap? Usually the ones who are into horscopes or have some interest/beliefs in it are those who are more sentimental, emotional and dreamy types. These are the ones who believe in fate, true love, destiny and so on. Whereas for those who see horoscopes as nothing more than rubbish or some unrealistic stuffs are those who see nothing more inportant in life than money, work, career and they are usually very pratical people. In other words, they are those realistic and traditional ones.
I can't remember the day i became so interested in astrology but it all started from a simple horoscope reading in those 'teenage magazines' when i was very young, 12 or 13 years old i think. From a simple daily horoscope reading i grew more and more interested and indulge myself in unveiling every truths that horoscopes hold. Today i'm still learning more and more about horoscopes but i can conceive afew things which are certain about them, and one of them being my own horoscope Cancer. Up to date, i still feel the horoscope of a male Cancer is the most accurate one. Not because its my sign, but because of what is written under Cancer guy in every astrology books, magazines, websites and comparing them to what i know about myself. My own horoscope is true, so true but not 100%, maybe 99%. If u think u know me, well don't be sure, and don't even make stupid judgements about me.
So u think astrology, umm should i say horoscope to make it sounds more familiar, is all rubbish and crap? Usually the ones who are into horscopes or have some interest/beliefs in it are those who are more sentimental, emotional and dreamy types. These are the ones who believe in fate, true love, destiny and so on. Whereas for those who see horoscopes as nothing more than rubbish or some unrealistic stuffs are those who see nothing more inportant in life than money, work, career and they are usually very pratical people. In other words, they are those realistic and traditional ones.
I can't remember the day i became so interested in astrology but it all started from a simple horoscope reading in those 'teenage magazines' when i was very young, 12 or 13 years old i think. From a simple daily horoscope reading i grew more and more interested and indulge myself in unveiling every truths that horoscopes hold. Today i'm still learning more and more about horoscopes but i can conceive afew things which are certain about them, and one of them being my own horoscope Cancer. Up to date, i still feel the horoscope of a male Cancer is the most accurate one. Not because its my sign, but because of what is written under Cancer guy in every astrology books, magazines, websites and comparing them to what i know about myself. My own horoscope is true, so true but not 100%, maybe 99%. If u think u know me, well don't be sure, and don't even make stupid judgements about me.
Male Cancer Horoscope
The most sensitive man and the weakest emotional type in all Zodiac. Most Artists are Cancer. Cancer is controlled by the "Moon" and the moon change it's shape daily, so Cancer man's emotional and moods change all the time too. You will confuse with him and yet it is his constantly changes that "Charm" you. He never go to get what he wants directly, but he will wait for a chance and opportunity to do so. Once he gets what he wants, he will not loose it, except if he get tired of it by himself.
100% true, I'm a highly sensitive and emotional freak. Romantic or sad movies can really influence or affect me. My moods are something that nobody will be able to understand, perhaps thats why people say i'm wierd, laughing one moment and all quiet the next. Many things i do or say determines my mood as well.
The most sensitive man who can not stand rejection. He cares what other people feel or think of him. He hates loosing face and he tends to over protected himself, so sometimes people might think he is a cold person.
Gifted, creative, imaginative, is Cancer. A mystery and complexity play a major role in a life of a Cancer man. He could be very funny, very quiet, suddenly very sad. Living with him could be very unexpected, for you will not know what is his next mood. If you like excitement and surprise, you have the right guy and never have a chance to get bored.
I'm not sure if i'm gifted but i'm defintely creative in an unique and uncommon way and extremely imaginative. Haha maybe this is why my essays in seconday school is always ranked number 1. I can easily imagine a story up lol! Yes, nobody will know whats my next mood is, not even myself. Excitement and surprise....hmm it depends on who that person is.
He thinks of his home as "nest" and it is the safest place for him. If he feels hurt or depress he will stay at home alone quietly. Once he feels better, he will come out of his retreat and lives normally again. Being a looser is not him.
Yes! I can say the majority of cancerians love their homes and are homely people. Why? For me its because home offers me security and i feel comfortable.
It is so easy to fall in love with this guy because he is gentle and a very polite guy. His wit and creative mind could win your affection. He will come out from his nest to protect you even if he is not opening himself up to other people much. Not many people will win his heart. His security is only when he has money in his pocket. Once he feels secure then he might think of having a happy family. Even he likes to make and keep money, he is not stingy. Spending money is part of his good image, so he will be happy to spent money to take you out to a very expensive restaurant or buy a jewelry for you. Certainly when he has money OK.
Easy to fall in love with me? I'd leave it up to u peeps to decide. I'm gentle, kind, with lots of wit and creativeness but that doesn't mean many are going to fall for me right? Spending money is so true, i can swear spending money is my forte. Till now my dad's still complaining about my spending sprees. I am a firm believer of spending money happily. Put it this way - I'd rather spend and be bankrupt than die with a million of dollars.
He is possessive to everything's that he thinks belong to him. Don't try to talk to another cute guy in front of him, he will get suspicion because he is not very secure or confident in himself for this kind of competition.
True but not as true as before. My possessiveness and jealousy have scaled down throughout the years with age.
Once you know each other too much, he will start to look for new excitement, but not to worry for he will always think of you. If he thinks you are the true love for him, and you try once to disappear. You will be sure he will come and look for you.
Not true, i don't fancy looking for new excitement. But if i love the person dearly no matter what I'd come back for her.
He is a shy guy, but if he likes you. You can get up in the morning and see that he is in front of your house everyday till you go out with him, a very persistent guy.
I'm shy but not that persistent and for sure i'm not going to stalk a person in the morning everyday! lol
He likes a secure, cheerful and lively woman, confident but at the same time always act proper and appropriate. He likes a secure woman, but able to adjust to his rapid changes. A very difficult type of woman to find indeed.
How true..
In the beginning, you and him will be so sugary sweet together and he will only think of you. This so "super romantic" will not last forever, so don't slip this chance. If you are the one who want his interest, then act and make yourself interesting. Be a supportive person and give him compliment sometimes, but not too much till he thinks you are not sincere.
Yes most beginnings are always very sweet, but i won't stop unless the feelings force me to. Thats because i'm a highly charged romanticist. Which guy wouldn't want a supportive gf? But i think compliments could be replaced by appreciations. I love people who show appreciations, whether its in words or actions.
Unlike many other Zodiac, if he is mad then you better get out of that room. He will calm down by himself. Giving him a slight touch on his shoulders or concerned facial expression are enough. He loves his mother, so try to be his mother favorite, but do not act like his mother!
Got the advice? I'm a hot headed volcano, unless u wanna get scaled u'd better leave me alone when i'm mad. Sounds scary but i don't explode easily =p
posted by mango at 3:59 PM
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Saturday, November 26, 2005
Big Boyz Toyz
It's all about a man's fantasy, vanity and masculinity - the exhibition certainly did not really live up to its motto. There was a lack of race queens, the FHM models are so stucked up, there were more promoters around than fast cars. Yeah fast cars, the Ferraris, Renaults and Lambros, they were there but were all old models! There was even 'Mary Chia bodyline' there which i thought was for girls?! I'm too shag to type anymore, let the photos do the talking instead.
I realized one thing today, Alan and Chris are extremely horrible photographers.....well just look at those blur photos arghhhh why r my picturs soooo blurrrrrrr!!!!?!?
It's all about a man's fantasy, vanity and masculinity - the exhibition certainly did not really live up to its motto. There was a lack of race queens, the FHM models are so stucked up, there were more promoters around than fast cars. Yeah fast cars, the Ferraris, Renaults and Lambros, they were there but were all old models! There was even 'Mary Chia bodyline' there which i thought was for girls?! I'm too shag to type anymore, let the photos do the talking instead.
I realized one thing today, Alan and Chris are extremely horrible photographers.....well just look at those blur photos arghhhh why r my picturs soooo blurrrrrrr!!!!?!?
Ferrari
Lambro
Jackie Chan's Car?!?!
Evo 9!!!
I won a $100 voucher on this game of pool lol!
Standard pose still as steady as ever before!
Pool babe
posted by mango at 1:43 AM
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Thursday, November 24, 2005
An unusual form of attractiveness
Handsome guys and pretty girls, hot bods and figures, they are all forms of attractiveness in people. Having said so, there's a kind of unusuall attractiveness, the kind whereby u can feel it. U know he/she may not be a stunning beauty or hunk but there's just something, something very attractive about him/her, whether is the way he/she carries himself/herself or the way he/she talks. There is just an invisible force pulling u towards him/her. When u look at that person, u see an angel, your whole body goes soft and u don't even know what to say. The feeling is so addictive and its like pepsi - ask for more.
U know he/she is one of a kind, those that doesn't appears easily. When he/she looks and smiles at u, u feel like the happiest person in the world, even if the smile is just a casual one. These are things that money can't buy, these are the special ones that doesn't appear very often and even if they do, u're by no means certain that they'd feel the same way as u do.
Handsome guys and pretty girls, hot bods and figures, they are all forms of attractiveness in people. Having said so, there's a kind of unusuall attractiveness, the kind whereby u can feel it. U know he/she may not be a stunning beauty or hunk but there's just something, something very attractive about him/her, whether is the way he/she carries himself/herself or the way he/she talks. There is just an invisible force pulling u towards him/her. When u look at that person, u see an angel, your whole body goes soft and u don't even know what to say. The feeling is so addictive and its like pepsi - ask for more.
U know he/she is one of a kind, those that doesn't appears easily. When he/she looks and smiles at u, u feel like the happiest person in the world, even if the smile is just a casual one. These are things that money can't buy, these are the special ones that doesn't appear very often and even if they do, u're by no means certain that they'd feel the same way as u do.
posted by mango at 9:20 PM
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Tuesday, November 22, 2005
Exposed!
I don't know whether to pity or laugh at this but i'm pretty sure its a real thing. And the story behind these pictures are, if u drink, don't get drunk because u're responsible for everything. Got these from an email sent by a friend and its supposed to be at Madam Wong's. Enjoy~!
I don't know whether to pity or laugh at this but i'm pretty sure its a real thing. And the story behind these pictures are, if u drink, don't get drunk because u're responsible for everything. Got these from an email sent by a friend and its supposed to be at Madam Wong's. Enjoy~!
posted by mango at 11:04 PM
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Sunday, November 20, 2005
Black Sunday
Last night in my dreams i must have offfended one of the gods. On the train to redhill for soccer one bloody kiasu uncle rushing for the empty seat beside me stepped on my feets. I was wearing slippers and his was some leather shoes, stared at him with the steam inside me reaching boiling point. Luckily he apologised or I'd have made a big scene out there.
Today's soccer was so great, everything seem so perfect - the cool breezy weather, my fine form, and i had never felt so fit for a long time thanks to my daily 3km jogs. Alas, all's well wasn't gonna end well - i went up for a high ball with a big guy and i guessed i fell very awkwardly. "ccccrack" I could almost feel or hear this familiar sound in my ankle and i know i had a recurrence of my previous ankle injuries. I cluthed my ankle and groaned in pain for few mins which seem like hours on the ground. By the time i placed ice on it, i could feel my ankle swelling up. The first thing that came to my mind was not weather my ankle would be alright, its whether i was gonna miss the soccer tourement.
I hate my right ankle, damn it. Ever since i broke my ankle during primary 6 when i jumped from a flight of stairs and landed horribly badly, it has been so fragile ever since. Doctors advised me not to play too aggressively during soccer but i can't do it. Take away my aggressiveness and i've no idea how to play anymore. The second incident was worst, one bloody idiot went flying into my ankle with his studds and the impact was so hard that i had to have a metal bar inserted into my ankle to straighten my leg. I remember those sleepless nights after the operation - it was so painful i can't even close my eyes for a second.
Friends can be selfish sometimes, you injured your problem. I hobbled past them when going home and i seem invisible somehow. Nobody said anything to me let alone offer to help me to the bus stop. Alright fine, i'm used to being independent in this sense but if it was me i would have offer to help the person home or at least to the taxi stand. Worse to come, the bloody MRT was fucking packed and i had to stand from redhill all the way to boon lay with my ankle swollen and painful like hell. There wasn't any clinic opened in my neighbourhood as well, it was Sunday evening and understandable. But i do not understand why people are so kiasu nowadays. I struggled my way to get food at JP and some idiot in a rush knocked into me and i nearly fell over. Bloody son of a bitch if i'm ankle's fine i would have beat the fuck out of him.
Sigh...what a devasting day, hopefully tomorrow i won't receive anymore bad news when i see a doctor. One thing for sure, I'm gonna get MC for few days. I can barely walk.
Last night in my dreams i must have offfended one of the gods. On the train to redhill for soccer one bloody kiasu uncle rushing for the empty seat beside me stepped on my feets. I was wearing slippers and his was some leather shoes, stared at him with the steam inside me reaching boiling point. Luckily he apologised or I'd have made a big scene out there.
Today's soccer was so great, everything seem so perfect - the cool breezy weather, my fine form, and i had never felt so fit for a long time thanks to my daily 3km jogs. Alas, all's well wasn't gonna end well - i went up for a high ball with a big guy and i guessed i fell very awkwardly. "ccccrack" I could almost feel or hear this familiar sound in my ankle and i know i had a recurrence of my previous ankle injuries. I cluthed my ankle and groaned in pain for few mins which seem like hours on the ground. By the time i placed ice on it, i could feel my ankle swelling up. The first thing that came to my mind was not weather my ankle would be alright, its whether i was gonna miss the soccer tourement.
I hate my right ankle, damn it. Ever since i broke my ankle during primary 6 when i jumped from a flight of stairs and landed horribly badly, it has been so fragile ever since. Doctors advised me not to play too aggressively during soccer but i can't do it. Take away my aggressiveness and i've no idea how to play anymore. The second incident was worst, one bloody idiot went flying into my ankle with his studds and the impact was so hard that i had to have a metal bar inserted into my ankle to straighten my leg. I remember those sleepless nights after the operation - it was so painful i can't even close my eyes for a second.
Friends can be selfish sometimes, you injured your problem. I hobbled past them when going home and i seem invisible somehow. Nobody said anything to me let alone offer to help me to the bus stop. Alright fine, i'm used to being independent in this sense but if it was me i would have offer to help the person home or at least to the taxi stand. Worse to come, the bloody MRT was fucking packed and i had to stand from redhill all the way to boon lay with my ankle swollen and painful like hell. There wasn't any clinic opened in my neighbourhood as well, it was Sunday evening and understandable. But i do not understand why people are so kiasu nowadays. I struggled my way to get food at JP and some idiot in a rush knocked into me and i nearly fell over. Bloody son of a bitch if i'm ankle's fine i would have beat the fuck out of him.
Sigh...what a devasting day, hopefully tomorrow i won't receive anymore bad news when i see a doctor. One thing for sure, I'm gonna get MC for few days. I can barely walk.
posted by mango at 5:35 PM
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Thursday, November 17, 2005
A winning mentality
Even after running 4 rounds around my block covering no less than 3km, i'm still in a frenzy and buzzing, no thanks to the confirmation of the ICT soccer tourement. I went down to the briefing with Irwan and as expected we drew the 2 'toughest' teams possible out of the hat. As expected, the reaction i got from the rest of the lads was not that positive: "sure die liao", "wah lao fuck man how how how?!" "so shuay sia omg".
I din't like any of that. Deep down i felt it was quite a good draw and it could turn out to be a blessing in disguie. Just imagine drawing all the lousy teams and everyone think it would be so easy and start slacking - the consequences would be dire. I vividly remember the last tourement - it was better than the first one in terms of our position but i guess i behaved like some lunatic out there. I've been dying to atone for that all these while, i've been dying to prove my point. I hate losing, call me a sore loser but i just can't stand losing. I want to win all the time, i shout alot on the field when things goes wrong, this is me.
Speaking of the tourement, i can't wait for it to start (its on dec 9, 10 and 11). The good thing is that we have more time to prepare for it. I really wished in our final year together as a class we could put things right for just one time that matters most. What i really hate about this team is that we aren't united enough, we lack lots of team spirit. All the negative things that were being said before a ball is even being kicked show that. We might as well raise a white flag if we think this way, we might as well withdaw from the fucking tourement. If one person in the entire team thinks we will not make it, then we never will. Its all about teamwork and spirit, this is not some world cup we're not playing some great players, just players the same level as us. Soccer is like exam, if u study hard and make an effort, u will pass - its as simple as that.
How many of the lads would be willing to make time juz one day in a week to train together?
waste time...
stupid...
silly....
bo liao...
These are the likely answers. There we go, thats the problem with everyone. Well i'm not very bright, but i do know that if we make an effort to work for it we will succeed. If we think we're going in there just to make up the numbers and have fun then we might as well not turn up. Its about mentality, its about spirit and believing. Skills, tactics and all the shits come second.
There isn't anything that comes free in this world, there's no short cut to success be it in a small competition or the world cup.
Even after running 4 rounds around my block covering no less than 3km, i'm still in a frenzy and buzzing, no thanks to the confirmation of the ICT soccer tourement. I went down to the briefing with Irwan and as expected we drew the 2 'toughest' teams possible out of the hat. As expected, the reaction i got from the rest of the lads was not that positive: "sure die liao", "wah lao fuck man how how how?!" "so shuay sia omg".
I din't like any of that. Deep down i felt it was quite a good draw and it could turn out to be a blessing in disguie. Just imagine drawing all the lousy teams and everyone think it would be so easy and start slacking - the consequences would be dire. I vividly remember the last tourement - it was better than the first one in terms of our position but i guess i behaved like some lunatic out there. I've been dying to atone for that all these while, i've been dying to prove my point. I hate losing, call me a sore loser but i just can't stand losing. I want to win all the time, i shout alot on the field when things goes wrong, this is me.
Speaking of the tourement, i can't wait for it to start (its on dec 9, 10 and 11). The good thing is that we have more time to prepare for it. I really wished in our final year together as a class we could put things right for just one time that matters most. What i really hate about this team is that we aren't united enough, we lack lots of team spirit. All the negative things that were being said before a ball is even being kicked show that. We might as well raise a white flag if we think this way, we might as well withdaw from the fucking tourement. If one person in the entire team thinks we will not make it, then we never will. Its all about teamwork and spirit, this is not some world cup we're not playing some great players, just players the same level as us. Soccer is like exam, if u study hard and make an effort, u will pass - its as simple as that.
How many of the lads would be willing to make time juz one day in a week to train together?
waste time...
stupid...
silly....
bo liao...
These are the likely answers. There we go, thats the problem with everyone. Well i'm not very bright, but i do know that if we make an effort to work for it we will succeed. If we think we're going in there just to make up the numbers and have fun then we might as well not turn up. Its about mentality, its about spirit and believing. Skills, tactics and all the shits come second.
There isn't anything that comes free in this world, there's no short cut to success be it in a small competition or the world cup.
If the so call 'big teams' in our tourements are the France and Hollands, then we can always be the Greece...
and if they are the Juventus and AC Milans here then we can always be Liverpool....
...and if they're the Thailands and Indonesias, then we shall be Singapore....
I'm not saying we're gonna play like Greece, Liverpool or Singapore - that would be unrealistic and ridiculous. I'm just implying that we can take heart from how these 3 teams won their tourements - belief, spirit, teamwork. No star players needed, period.
I don't know if u guys will be reading this but if u do, well i hope it does makes sense to u guys. Lets do this, for the last time - one for all, all for one!
posted by mango at 8:16 PM
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Tuesday, November 15, 2005
Nauseous Tuesdays
While i'm gonna love Fridays for them being a school-free day to me, Tuesday will be the exact opposite. All for one reason - professional issues (PI) practical classes. I was flabbergasted upon finding out that the activities to be done during that practical class includes role-play and presentations. I went sick in the stomach straight away and felt like going straight home.
I've never been known to be someone who likes presentations or speaking in front of a 'crowd'. I just hate it, the thought of all the previous bad experiences that left so much sour tastes in my mouth simply makes me hate presentations even more. Worst still the tutor for this class was the one whom i had a 'clash' with 1 year or so ago. The moment he walked into the class his eyes were fixed onto me as if i'm some wanted criminal. I din't gave a damn anyway, so long as he minds his own business i'd mind mine too, i'm always one whose forgiving and able to rest the past. Thankfully nothing bad happened during the lessons. Still i hate the presentations, the thought of having to present and do role-plays for like some 13 weeks is just too deplorable to me. Sigh i'm gonna dread going to school on Tuesdays from now on, fuck man!
Stunning golden baby, the new Adidas predator absolute boots is tops of my shopping and wish list. The stumbling block is naturally the price which i estimated would be somewhere between $260 - $300, similiar to the old models. Alvin called me a rich bastard for wanting to buy those boots for some school soccer tourement. Well i know not many can afford such 'glamorous' soccer boots and its certainly understandable for people misunderstanding me for trying to show off with those boots. Thats not the case though, i've an equal amouth of cheap and expensive boots and i simply like collecting boots even though some pairs i've only worn afew times. Its in my blood really, growing up as a kid i've always got a fettish for comfortable and nice boots and its no difference now. Donning a great pair of boots does gives me extra confidence and motivation when i step out onto the pitch. It may seem like crap and nonsense i know but its true in my case and thats all i will say. I don't care if u think i'm buying those boots to show off or anything, because u know wearing those boots does gives u extra stress and pressure. Thats because wearing good and expensive boots worn by superstars means u've got to play well and everyone's eyes will be on u at some point of time during a match.
I love expensive and good boots for making me feel extra special and good!
While i'm gonna love Fridays for them being a school-free day to me, Tuesday will be the exact opposite. All for one reason - professional issues (PI) practical classes. I was flabbergasted upon finding out that the activities to be done during that practical class includes role-play and presentations. I went sick in the stomach straight away and felt like going straight home.
I've never been known to be someone who likes presentations or speaking in front of a 'crowd'. I just hate it, the thought of all the previous bad experiences that left so much sour tastes in my mouth simply makes me hate presentations even more. Worst still the tutor for this class was the one whom i had a 'clash' with 1 year or so ago. The moment he walked into the class his eyes were fixed onto me as if i'm some wanted criminal. I din't gave a damn anyway, so long as he minds his own business i'd mind mine too, i'm always one whose forgiving and able to rest the past. Thankfully nothing bad happened during the lessons. Still i hate the presentations, the thought of having to present and do role-plays for like some 13 weeks is just too deplorable to me. Sigh i'm gonna dread going to school on Tuesdays from now on, fuck man!
Stunning golden baby, the new Adidas predator absolute boots is tops of my shopping and wish list. The stumbling block is naturally the price which i estimated would be somewhere between $260 - $300, similiar to the old models. Alvin called me a rich bastard for wanting to buy those boots for some school soccer tourement. Well i know not many can afford such 'glamorous' soccer boots and its certainly understandable for people misunderstanding me for trying to show off with those boots. Thats not the case though, i've an equal amouth of cheap and expensive boots and i simply like collecting boots even though some pairs i've only worn afew times. Its in my blood really, growing up as a kid i've always got a fettish for comfortable and nice boots and its no difference now. Donning a great pair of boots does gives me extra confidence and motivation when i step out onto the pitch. It may seem like crap and nonsense i know but its true in my case and thats all i will say. I don't care if u think i'm buying those boots to show off or anything, because u know wearing those boots does gives u extra stress and pressure. Thats because wearing good and expensive boots worn by superstars means u've got to play well and everyone's eyes will be on u at some point of time during a match.
I love expensive and good boots for making me feel extra special and good!
posted by mango at 11:09 PM
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Sunday, November 13, 2005
What guys want (Part 2)
Certain truths about guys are rather ugly but they are important for the opposite sex to know. I'm not defending guys' behavior, i'm only speaking about it as it is.
Ugly Truths About Guys:
Ugly Truth no.1 - Guys use girls for Sex
This is no secret i guess, when a guy really love a girl he will show it so through his actions u can roughly tell if he's using u for sex or not. We have sex because we're lonely, we have sex to satisfy our sexual urges, we have sex to boost our ego. If we were walking through a hot, dry desert and saw a cactus a hundred yard away, we would run towards it and quench our thirst as much as we could. When we're in a sexual drought and see a woman WILLING to quench our sexual desire, we run towards her too.
Ugly Truth no.2 - Guys cheat on girls they love
One word to this - lust. A guy will sometimes lust after other girls despite haveing a terrific gf and relationship which have fufilled everything he wants. There are siutation whereby guys want more sexual variety thus they end up cheating their pretty gf for one who's kinda ugly. A good example - Huge Grant's gf is a beautiful model that any man would die for. But what did he do? He was arrested for allegedly picking up a hooker and receiving oral sex from her. Wayne Rooney visiting a grandma whore despite having a great gf is another example.
Ugly Truths no.3 - I'm not read for a .....commitment with u
"I'm not ready for a commitment." This line usually comes when a couple has been dating for awhile and the girl finally press the guy to commit to her and not see other girls anymore. When he says that he's not 'ready', girls usually think that its due to the timming. Wrong! A guy will know almost immediately whether or not the girl he is dating is a girl he would consider as a gf or potential wife. If he doesn't feels this way, he never will.
Ugly Truths no.4 - A girl's looks are almost everything
I've written a post before how important looks are. You may never want to believe its true but a girl's looks mean everything to a guy. Whenever a guy meets a girl the first time, he judge her by how attractive she is, to him. If he doesn't finds her attractive, game over baby! Of course every guy has different taste, so the girl doesn't have to be damn super gorgeous. This sucks but its true - if u have a beautiful sister, be sure that your bf had thoughts of having sex with her before.
Ugly Truths no.5 - Girls will always be 2nd in command
Typical and traditonal guys will insist on this rule - the guy will lead. Guys naturally hate to be 2nd in command, that is to let the girl decide on everything and he has little or no say in every issue. Guys' ego can't tolerate this toture and its only a matter of time before he says: "enough! i want out!"
Buying gifts for a girl is one of the hardest and most painful experience for a professional guy. Note that unprofessional guys will not give a damn, they can easily get a gift within 5 mins without considering anything. A real guy willl try to buy the perfect gift for the girl he loves. The trouble is he knows that his idea of a perfect gift may not be his gf's idea of a perfect gift. So he has to think like a girl when shopping for that gift. This is damn frustrating to say because most guys hate thinking like a girl with the exception of maybe metrosexual guys. Retrosexual (manly) guys usually have trouble thinking like a girl. This explains why guys sometimes approach their girl friends, sisters or even mom to ask for clues. The search for the gift can take weeks and lots of different stores, from little craft/gift stores to large department stores and even women's apparel stores. Though this is an ordeal for us, we do it anyway because we care about the girl in our lives and we know it means alot to her. So whenever a guy passes the gift to a girl, deep inside he'd be nervous thinking if she'd like it or not. Guys may not say it, but they really wished their gf would understand the tremendous 'job' he'd done and that she'd show some appreciation. The worst thing a girl can do is to show immediate disappointment upon opening the gift. The guy will be hurt and probably start to resent her. Joking or making fun of the gift is not a good idea also - his mom could have helped him pick the gift. Guys do not expect much from a girl when she receives his gift, just be appreciative whatever the gift is.
Guys are funny when it comes to compliments. If a guy takes a girl to a restaurent and she comments on how delicious the food is, the guy will feel as if he was the one who personally caught the fish or killed that cow, seasoned it and cooked it to perfection and serve it up for her. Same thing when a guy takes a girl out to a movie and she really enjoys it and tells him so. He's gonna feel as if he was the one who directed the whole movie and produced the film. Somehow complitments are vital to guys just like pampering is to girls. We love compliments as it makes us feel confident, happy and comfortable. Compliment also shows how much a girl cares and whether she's sensitive to his needs, and it serves well to help mysterious, shy, or conservative guys open up.
Ever heard of the saying - "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach"? Its true, guys have a soft spot for girls who cook for them. Cooking shows that u care and provides lots of affections. More importantly, it can help girls score points with their bf's mother. Just imagine a guy coming home after a hard day's work and there on the table's lots of great food. Its as good as a girl coming home and seeing diamonds on her bed. Sounds unrealistic but its true.
Girls can be generous to guys in actions as well as words. Guys love it when girls offer to pay for something on a date or buy them small thing as a token of their affection instead of treating them like some ATM or credit card. This is as good as the girl saying "I like u". Its not how much the stuff cost its the thoughts and efforts that counts...so u wouldn't probably see guys complaining about the gifts that girls buy for them. Most guys will feel especially touched by gifts that girls buy, especially IF its from a girl he likes and/or its not a gift-giving ocassion (xmas, bday, etc). There are still some rules when buying a guy gift though:
1. Buy him something u think he like, not something u like! (imagine buying a guy soft toys just because u like them)
2. Don't buy something that is completely not his style. He will think u're trying to change him and start resenting u.
3. Don't buy him bad clothing gifts like jeans if he only wears khakis or Gucci shoes if he only wears timberland.
4. Don't buy him big practical things for his house like decorations or plates. These are too domestic and he may think u're gonna move in with him.
5. Do buy him small tchotchkes such as scent candles or clocks.
6. Be wary of buying him a wallet or organizer. Guys are very picky about such things.
We know that communication is the key to any successful relationship. Unfortunately, guys do not like to talk about their relationship issues with their gf even though they realize how important such talk is. Its ironic then, that guys can sometimes be very gd in communication during work but yet have such a tough time talking to their gf. Its not that a couple shouldn't talk about their relationship issues but there is a right time and mood to talk about it. Bring up such an issue to your guy on his bad days and u'd get an equally bad or listless response. To most guys, talking about relationship issues only takes place when needed, when there are problems to be solved.
Every guy would love an intelligent and responsive girl. One who knows how to listen and pose questions. No guy will like it if a girl keep talking about her ex or whatever handsome or rich guy that she knows. We guys will only think u're some insecure money sucker or whats so great about having big bucks?! A guy wants to be liked for himself, not for what he will spend on a girl or do for her. In guy terms, a girl who appreciate this is a girl with positive energy and affability - a cool chick! Well i guess girls hate being called a chick as it sounds like some whore but the truth is that the word 'chick' is just a guy thing, a word that guy use among guys and nothing more.
All guys have different characters but these are things which most share in common no matter what their characteristics are. And finally, we guys HATE TO BE LOOKED UPON OR LABELLED AS DESPERATES/PERVERTS! Yes there are lots of such assholes out there but not every guy is like that, and well there are sluts and bitches too so isn't they worth a mention as well?
Certain truths about guys are rather ugly but they are important for the opposite sex to know. I'm not defending guys' behavior, i'm only speaking about it as it is.
Ugly Truths About Guys:
Ugly Truth no.1 - Guys use girls for Sex
This is no secret i guess, when a guy really love a girl he will show it so through his actions u can roughly tell if he's using u for sex or not. We have sex because we're lonely, we have sex to satisfy our sexual urges, we have sex to boost our ego. If we were walking through a hot, dry desert and saw a cactus a hundred yard away, we would run towards it and quench our thirst as much as we could. When we're in a sexual drought and see a woman WILLING to quench our sexual desire, we run towards her too.
Ugly Truth no.2 - Guys cheat on girls they love
One word to this - lust. A guy will sometimes lust after other girls despite haveing a terrific gf and relationship which have fufilled everything he wants. There are siutation whereby guys want more sexual variety thus they end up cheating their pretty gf for one who's kinda ugly. A good example - Huge Grant's gf is a beautiful model that any man would die for. But what did he do? He was arrested for allegedly picking up a hooker and receiving oral sex from her. Wayne Rooney visiting a grandma whore despite having a great gf is another example.
Ugly Truths no.3 - I'm not read for a .....commitment with u
"I'm not ready for a commitment." This line usually comes when a couple has been dating for awhile and the girl finally press the guy to commit to her and not see other girls anymore. When he says that he's not 'ready', girls usually think that its due to the timming. Wrong! A guy will know almost immediately whether or not the girl he is dating is a girl he would consider as a gf or potential wife. If he doesn't feels this way, he never will.
Ugly Truths no.4 - A girl's looks are almost everything
I've written a post before how important looks are. You may never want to believe its true but a girl's looks mean everything to a guy. Whenever a guy meets a girl the first time, he judge her by how attractive she is, to him. If he doesn't finds her attractive, game over baby! Of course every guy has different taste, so the girl doesn't have to be damn super gorgeous. This sucks but its true - if u have a beautiful sister, be sure that your bf had thoughts of having sex with her before.
Ugly Truths no.5 - Girls will always be 2nd in command
Typical and traditonal guys will insist on this rule - the guy will lead. Guys naturally hate to be 2nd in command, that is to let the girl decide on everything and he has little or no say in every issue. Guys' ego can't tolerate this toture and its only a matter of time before he says: "enough! i want out!"
Buying gifts for a girl is one of the hardest and most painful experience for a professional guy. Note that unprofessional guys will not give a damn, they can easily get a gift within 5 mins without considering anything. A real guy willl try to buy the perfect gift for the girl he loves. The trouble is he knows that his idea of a perfect gift may not be his gf's idea of a perfect gift. So he has to think like a girl when shopping for that gift. This is damn frustrating to say because most guys hate thinking like a girl with the exception of maybe metrosexual guys. Retrosexual (manly) guys usually have trouble thinking like a girl. This explains why guys sometimes approach their girl friends, sisters or even mom to ask for clues. The search for the gift can take weeks and lots of different stores, from little craft/gift stores to large department stores and even women's apparel stores. Though this is an ordeal for us, we do it anyway because we care about the girl in our lives and we know it means alot to her. So whenever a guy passes the gift to a girl, deep inside he'd be nervous thinking if she'd like it or not. Guys may not say it, but they really wished their gf would understand the tremendous 'job' he'd done and that she'd show some appreciation. The worst thing a girl can do is to show immediate disappointment upon opening the gift. The guy will be hurt and probably start to resent her. Joking or making fun of the gift is not a good idea also - his mom could have helped him pick the gift. Guys do not expect much from a girl when she receives his gift, just be appreciative whatever the gift is.
Guys are funny when it comes to compliments. If a guy takes a girl to a restaurent and she comments on how delicious the food is, the guy will feel as if he was the one who personally caught the fish or killed that cow, seasoned it and cooked it to perfection and serve it up for her. Same thing when a guy takes a girl out to a movie and she really enjoys it and tells him so. He's gonna feel as if he was the one who directed the whole movie and produced the film. Somehow complitments are vital to guys just like pampering is to girls. We love compliments as it makes us feel confident, happy and comfortable. Compliment also shows how much a girl cares and whether she's sensitive to his needs, and it serves well to help mysterious, shy, or conservative guys open up.
Ever heard of the saying - "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach"? Its true, guys have a soft spot for girls who cook for them. Cooking shows that u care and provides lots of affections. More importantly, it can help girls score points with their bf's mother. Just imagine a guy coming home after a hard day's work and there on the table's lots of great food. Its as good as a girl coming home and seeing diamonds on her bed. Sounds unrealistic but its true.
Girls can be generous to guys in actions as well as words. Guys love it when girls offer to pay for something on a date or buy them small thing as a token of their affection instead of treating them like some ATM or credit card. This is as good as the girl saying "I like u". Its not how much the stuff cost its the thoughts and efforts that counts...so u wouldn't probably see guys complaining about the gifts that girls buy for them. Most guys will feel especially touched by gifts that girls buy, especially IF its from a girl he likes and/or its not a gift-giving ocassion (xmas, bday, etc). There are still some rules when buying a guy gift though:
1. Buy him something u think he like, not something u like! (imagine buying a guy soft toys just because u like them)
2. Don't buy something that is completely not his style. He will think u're trying to change him and start resenting u.
3. Don't buy him bad clothing gifts like jeans if he only wears khakis or Gucci shoes if he only wears timberland.
4. Don't buy him big practical things for his house like decorations or plates. These are too domestic and he may think u're gonna move in with him.
5. Do buy him small tchotchkes such as scent candles or clocks.
6. Be wary of buying him a wallet or organizer. Guys are very picky about such things.
We know that communication is the key to any successful relationship. Unfortunately, guys do not like to talk about their relationship issues with their gf even though they realize how important such talk is. Its ironic then, that guys can sometimes be very gd in communication during work but yet have such a tough time talking to their gf. Its not that a couple shouldn't talk about their relationship issues but there is a right time and mood to talk about it. Bring up such an issue to your guy on his bad days and u'd get an equally bad or listless response. To most guys, talking about relationship issues only takes place when needed, when there are problems to be solved.
Every guy would love an intelligent and responsive girl. One who knows how to listen and pose questions. No guy will like it if a girl keep talking about her ex or whatever handsome or rich guy that she knows. We guys will only think u're some insecure money sucker or whats so great about having big bucks?! A guy wants to be liked for himself, not for what he will spend on a girl or do for her. In guy terms, a girl who appreciate this is a girl with positive energy and affability - a cool chick! Well i guess girls hate being called a chick as it sounds like some whore but the truth is that the word 'chick' is just a guy thing, a word that guy use among guys and nothing more.
All guys have different characters but these are things which most share in common no matter what their characteristics are. And finally, we guys HATE TO BE LOOKED UPON OR LABELLED AS DESPERATES/PERVERTS! Yes there are lots of such assholes out there but not every guy is like that, and well there are sluts and bitches too so isn't they worth a mention as well?
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Friday, November 11, 2005
What guys want (part 1)
Been days since i blogged, sorry for the lack of updates my frens! Past few days either too slack, lazy or busy to blog, so here's one long interesting entry to make up for it!
People are always talking about how difficult to please a girl or what it takes to win a girl's heart. But have we ever considered the guys and their needs and desires? Its not easy understanding guys and their needs as well.
Lets start with some facts about guys, golden geniune facts!
Fact no.1 - Guys appreciate girls who take the initiative
Ok i know guys are always supposed to make the first moves and take the initiatives, but we're living in modern times now. Guys with character always believe in the balance of power although there will still be some who have traditional thinkings that guys should take the initiatives. Guys love girls who show an interest in them. Isn't it human nature?
Fact no.2 - Guys are extremely jealous creatures
Professional guys are competitive and hate to lose or even think of losing what they have. If he's jealous, he's struggling with the thought that he thinks there is someone out there who can make his gf happier and treat her better. This is mental toture at its most subtle and strikes at the heart of a man's fear - that he is not man enough to make the woman he loves happy. So its a mistake to try to use jealousy as a ploy to reel a guy closer to u. He will drop u cold rather than suffer this kind of toture.
Fact no.3 - Guys are turned off by girls who play hard to get
If a girl thinks a relationship would have worked out had she played harder to get, she is wrong. Relationships are formed and sustained by chemistry and hard work. To be sure, its human nature to want what we can't have, and so posing a challenge may sometimes make a guy chase. But if there is no chemistry, no substance and once the chase is over and the challenge is conquered, the relationship is destined for failure. Many guys hate mind games and girls who think they have some big fuck looks. A girl playing hard to get may not even be giving herself a fair chance to make it work with a guy. To guys, just trying to meet and have a relationship with a girl is a challenge already itself.
Fact no.4 - Guys have a hard time interpreting girls' talk
When a girl talks as she naturally does, a guy often finds it difficult to understand her. He senses all sorts of things circulating beneath the surface of the conversation but is not too sure what they are. This is usually the case with sensitive guys although the insensitive ones are not ruled out either. When a girl says, "Lets talk about our relationship", the guy will probably think to himself, "whats wrong? what does she want me to say? is there any problems with our relationship?"
Fact no.5 - Guys love looking at girls
Not every guy who look at girls are perverts or have evil designs on her. Primary reason is that the girl is HOT or pretty. Its the same for girls looking at good looking guys. There are also other reasons such as the girl carries herself well or seem special in some way. Whatever u call it, looking at girls is guys' way of gossiping.
Fact no.6 - Guys' natural inclination is to have sex with many women
Note the word 'natural', we are borned like this but it doesn't mean we think like this when we grow up. Guys will cheat anyway, scoundrels and jerks we are. Looking at different naked women satisfies a guy's visual imagination - thats why guys satisfy their needs for variety through pornography. And of course all guys masturbate, nerds included.
Fact no.7 - The way to a guy's heart is through his ego
Forget it if he says he doesnt mind. There isn't a guy in this world without an ego, its just a matter of how big his ego is. Any guy will be drawn to a girl who thinks and care about him. Guys marry girls who are loyal and supportive. They need their wives to be on their sides instead of constantly tearing him down and going against him. His ego won't be able to tolerate the lifetime siege.
All guys will at some point of their lives stucked with this dilemma - how to approach a girl? No matter how daring a guy is, there will be countless thoughts filling up his mind before he approaches a girl. She will reject me. I'll make a fool of myself. Am i good enough? Is that a ring on her finger? Will she think i'm a desperate? These thoughts are usually balanced, positives comes after negatives. There's nobody sitting next to her. She's definitely looking at me. Maybe its just a school ring. Maybe she'd find me cute. I've nothing to lose. Usually if there're more positive than negative thoughts, the guy will approach the girl but there are also times whereby the guy just approach even though there are alot of negative thoughts in his head.
The one word used in such circumatances is rejection. All guys hate and fear rejection and by nature, guys are insecure. Its amazing how insecurity can turn a school ring into a wedding ring in their thoughts. No matter how rich, brilliant, famous or good-looking, a guy will always wonder: Does she have a bf? Will she blow me off? Does she hate men? Is she in a bad mood? But the most commmon reason for not approaching girls is the fear of rejection.
Unsuccessful attempts can have a devastating effect on guys. We will lose confidence, we will 'kick' ourselves and feel we're such a loser. Each rejection always stay in our mind and so it always makes it that much more difficult to try again next time. Those with strong determination are always the ones who managed to deal with rejection well. Worst, if there they are being rejected in a places full of people, they will feel even worse. So guys don't really fancy approaching a girl in places full of people, they will feel as if the whole world is staring at them, waiting for him to be shot down. But that doesn't includes crowded discos and pubs though. Its usually less nerve jangling for us there because everyone is busy dancing or doing their own shit and less awkward.
The most initimidating scenario to meet or approach a girl is usually during girls night out or an all girls group. The thought of having to go over to an all girls group and approach a girl resulting in embrassing ourselves is enough to kill any confidence. I'm not saying its wrong to have girls night out, the value of friendship is understandable. But i'm saying that if a girl sees a guy she'd like to meet she should step out of the group. This is also taking the initiatives and creating a chance and guys would appreciate this. 9 out of 10 times a guy approach a girl when she's partying with her girlfriends, he'd be turned down flat in the face and left with a sour taste.
As guys, we like it when the girl's more open minded in her speech and friendly. It's very difficult if the girl's so shy and keep looking away or something. We appreciate girls who are willing to talk if they're interested instead of behaving like a big fuck out there.
Sex is something that is tied down with all guys for good. For a guy, sexual compatibility can make or break the relationship. No i'm not saying every relationship needs to have sex involved, neither am i saying if the girl sucks on bed the guy's gonna dump her. I'm simply emphasizing how important sex is for a guy. The chemistry has to be there first of all, especially in the beginning. Bad, lousy or lukewarm sex, espcially in a new relationship will only spell incompatiability. Good sex gone bad will also sometimes mean the relationship is on the skids.
Not only is sex important to a guy, his sense of himself as a man is also tied to his sexual performance and the girl's satisfaction. Manhood is all about performance and ego. When these 2 are at stake, guys don't like taking too many risks. Put it simply, a real man will prefer not to have sex when he know he can't perform rather than risk not performing well. Its kind of awkward and hurting to our ego and manhood if we fail miserably on the bed and fail to satisfy the girl. A guy in an establised relationship will also not want to have sex all the time due to tiredness, watching sports or having a problem. This tells u the difference between the disgusting fuckers who go for sex all the time and the real guys. Not all guys are as desperate as u girls out there think!
Performance on the bed requires alot of effort from the guy, thats because sex is so fucking physically demanding and requires so much energy. Most of u think the guy is simply enjoying while fucking a girl but thats not true sometimes. The guy is always the one who does most of the 'work'. He must become hard, stay hard, perform the act, not ejaculate too quickly (or the girl will not attain orgasm), but make sure he ejaculates eventually. These are just the basics amongst the many more.
So what do guys want sexually? This is the big question. To summarise it up, guys want a girl with sexual power. By this, i mean that she attracts him, she is his type, and there is a chemical reaction. This is the girl who makes his heart start pumping as soon as she enters the room. Yes being able to perform on bed is one thing but there's more than this. A real girl with sexual power is a girl with her own worth, a girl with confidence, with spirit and happy happy in her own body. She doesn't have to be have a hot body like Jessica Simpson or a pettie face like Jolin Tsai. A girl with sexual power is not ashamed of her body and she oozes confidence such as after sex she's not afraid to walk across the room naked. Confidence can also be conveyed through the way she kisses and moves, as well as the way she knows hhow to please and be pleased. She's not afraid to tell him what she prefers and is willing to do what he wants to do and knows how to accentuate the experience. Guys want good sexual partners, thats a girl who knows how to allow the guy to take the lead while she follows but also know when is her turn to take the lead.
Every guy has a favourite position in sex somehow. And its vital to a guy that his partner is pleased and pleases him in this favoured position. For him, it spells compatibility and if a girl rejects, there is no way he will be satisfied. Its like telling a pizza lover he will never be able to eat pizza again! Although sexual preferences can be adjusted, its hard to change because somehow its in the blood. Guys dislike awkward issues or siutations during sex. They prefer a spirit of openness such as knowing how to communicate - physically and verbally.
In general, guys love vocal girls who enjoy having sex. Seriously i believe there isn't a guy in this world who is not excited when he hears a girl telling him she likes what he's doing. "You feel so good inside me", "Harder baby,harder!" Such talks are erotic and guys like it and although these are things that are taboo under normal circumstances, they are perfectly ok in bed. Guys will always look at shy girls as boring girls, except for of course the perverts who just wanna fuck all day. Girls should not overdo it though, don't act like u're trying to win an oscar or something we hate it and may think u're trying to be some porn star.
Guys also love sexy lingerie. Some girls understand this, some don't. The whole point of wearing beautiful underwears is to show that u have a sexy quality that u yourself recognize and enjoy. It shows u exude a certain confidence that, in turn excites your guy. Guys often ask this question: Why does she wear that big, grandma-style underwear?! To guys, girls are supposed to have a sexy quality so what they wear accomplishes this. In fact most guys have their own preference of girl's lingerie, from half-cup bras to those diamond studdes ones, to push-ups, thongs, g-strings, brazilians and the colors as well.
Lastly, guys just like to sleep after sex mainly because its physically exhausting and tiring. We're not being ignorant we're just doing what our body wants us to do. So the final rule is : Hands off after ejaculation!
Been days since i blogged, sorry for the lack of updates my frens! Past few days either too slack, lazy or busy to blog, so here's one long interesting entry to make up for it!
People are always talking about how difficult to please a girl or what it takes to win a girl's heart. But have we ever considered the guys and their needs and desires? Its not easy understanding guys and their needs as well.
Lets start with some facts about guys, golden geniune facts!
Fact no.1 - Guys appreciate girls who take the initiative
Ok i know guys are always supposed to make the first moves and take the initiatives, but we're living in modern times now. Guys with character always believe in the balance of power although there will still be some who have traditional thinkings that guys should take the initiatives. Guys love girls who show an interest in them. Isn't it human nature?
Fact no.2 - Guys are extremely jealous creatures
Professional guys are competitive and hate to lose or even think of losing what they have. If he's jealous, he's struggling with the thought that he thinks there is someone out there who can make his gf happier and treat her better. This is mental toture at its most subtle and strikes at the heart of a man's fear - that he is not man enough to make the woman he loves happy. So its a mistake to try to use jealousy as a ploy to reel a guy closer to u. He will drop u cold rather than suffer this kind of toture.
Fact no.3 - Guys are turned off by girls who play hard to get
If a girl thinks a relationship would have worked out had she played harder to get, she is wrong. Relationships are formed and sustained by chemistry and hard work. To be sure, its human nature to want what we can't have, and so posing a challenge may sometimes make a guy chase. But if there is no chemistry, no substance and once the chase is over and the challenge is conquered, the relationship is destined for failure. Many guys hate mind games and girls who think they have some big fuck looks. A girl playing hard to get may not even be giving herself a fair chance to make it work with a guy. To guys, just trying to meet and have a relationship with a girl is a challenge already itself.
Fact no.4 - Guys have a hard time interpreting girls' talk
When a girl talks as she naturally does, a guy often finds it difficult to understand her. He senses all sorts of things circulating beneath the surface of the conversation but is not too sure what they are. This is usually the case with sensitive guys although the insensitive ones are not ruled out either. When a girl says, "Lets talk about our relationship", the guy will probably think to himself, "whats wrong? what does she want me to say? is there any problems with our relationship?"
Fact no.5 - Guys love looking at girls
Not every guy who look at girls are perverts or have evil designs on her. Primary reason is that the girl is HOT or pretty. Its the same for girls looking at good looking guys. There are also other reasons such as the girl carries herself well or seem special in some way. Whatever u call it, looking at girls is guys' way of gossiping.
Fact no.6 - Guys' natural inclination is to have sex with many women
Note the word 'natural', we are borned like this but it doesn't mean we think like this when we grow up. Guys will cheat anyway, scoundrels and jerks we are. Looking at different naked women satisfies a guy's visual imagination - thats why guys satisfy their needs for variety through pornography. And of course all guys masturbate, nerds included.
Fact no.7 - The way to a guy's heart is through his ego
Forget it if he says he doesnt mind. There isn't a guy in this world without an ego, its just a matter of how big his ego is. Any guy will be drawn to a girl who thinks and care about him. Guys marry girls who are loyal and supportive. They need their wives to be on their sides instead of constantly tearing him down and going against him. His ego won't be able to tolerate the lifetime siege.
All guys will at some point of their lives stucked with this dilemma - how to approach a girl? No matter how daring a guy is, there will be countless thoughts filling up his mind before he approaches a girl. She will reject me. I'll make a fool of myself. Am i good enough? Is that a ring on her finger? Will she think i'm a desperate? These thoughts are usually balanced, positives comes after negatives. There's nobody sitting next to her. She's definitely looking at me. Maybe its just a school ring. Maybe she'd find me cute. I've nothing to lose. Usually if there're more positive than negative thoughts, the guy will approach the girl but there are also times whereby the guy just approach even though there are alot of negative thoughts in his head.
The one word used in such circumatances is rejection. All guys hate and fear rejection and by nature, guys are insecure. Its amazing how insecurity can turn a school ring into a wedding ring in their thoughts. No matter how rich, brilliant, famous or good-looking, a guy will always wonder: Does she have a bf? Will she blow me off? Does she hate men? Is she in a bad mood? But the most commmon reason for not approaching girls is the fear of rejection.
Unsuccessful attempts can have a devastating effect on guys. We will lose confidence, we will 'kick' ourselves and feel we're such a loser. Each rejection always stay in our mind and so it always makes it that much more difficult to try again next time. Those with strong determination are always the ones who managed to deal with rejection well. Worst, if there they are being rejected in a places full of people, they will feel even worse. So guys don't really fancy approaching a girl in places full of people, they will feel as if the whole world is staring at them, waiting for him to be shot down. But that doesn't includes crowded discos and pubs though. Its usually less nerve jangling for us there because everyone is busy dancing or doing their own shit and less awkward.
The most initimidating scenario to meet or approach a girl is usually during girls night out or an all girls group. The thought of having to go over to an all girls group and approach a girl resulting in embrassing ourselves is enough to kill any confidence. I'm not saying its wrong to have girls night out, the value of friendship is understandable. But i'm saying that if a girl sees a guy she'd like to meet she should step out of the group. This is also taking the initiatives and creating a chance and guys would appreciate this. 9 out of 10 times a guy approach a girl when she's partying with her girlfriends, he'd be turned down flat in the face and left with a sour taste.
As guys, we like it when the girl's more open minded in her speech and friendly. It's very difficult if the girl's so shy and keep looking away or something. We appreciate girls who are willing to talk if they're interested instead of behaving like a big fuck out there.
Sex is something that is tied down with all guys for good. For a guy, sexual compatibility can make or break the relationship. No i'm not saying every relationship needs to have sex involved, neither am i saying if the girl sucks on bed the guy's gonna dump her. I'm simply emphasizing how important sex is for a guy. The chemistry has to be there first of all, especially in the beginning. Bad, lousy or lukewarm sex, espcially in a new relationship will only spell incompatiability. Good sex gone bad will also sometimes mean the relationship is on the skids.
Not only is sex important to a guy, his sense of himself as a man is also tied to his sexual performance and the girl's satisfaction. Manhood is all about performance and ego. When these 2 are at stake, guys don't like taking too many risks. Put it simply, a real man will prefer not to have sex when he know he can't perform rather than risk not performing well. Its kind of awkward and hurting to our ego and manhood if we fail miserably on the bed and fail to satisfy the girl. A guy in an establised relationship will also not want to have sex all the time due to tiredness, watching sports or having a problem. This tells u the difference between the disgusting fuckers who go for sex all the time and the real guys. Not all guys are as desperate as u girls out there think!
Performance on the bed requires alot of effort from the guy, thats because sex is so fucking physically demanding and requires so much energy. Most of u think the guy is simply enjoying while fucking a girl but thats not true sometimes. The guy is always the one who does most of the 'work'. He must become hard, stay hard, perform the act, not ejaculate too quickly (or the girl will not attain orgasm), but make sure he ejaculates eventually. These are just the basics amongst the many more.
So what do guys want sexually? This is the big question. To summarise it up, guys want a girl with sexual power. By this, i mean that she attracts him, she is his type, and there is a chemical reaction. This is the girl who makes his heart start pumping as soon as she enters the room. Yes being able to perform on bed is one thing but there's more than this. A real girl with sexual power is a girl with her own worth, a girl with confidence, with spirit and happy happy in her own body. She doesn't have to be have a hot body like Jessica Simpson or a pettie face like Jolin Tsai. A girl with sexual power is not ashamed of her body and she oozes confidence such as after sex she's not afraid to walk across the room naked. Confidence can also be conveyed through the way she kisses and moves, as well as the way she knows hhow to please and be pleased. She's not afraid to tell him what she prefers and is willing to do what he wants to do and knows how to accentuate the experience. Guys want good sexual partners, thats a girl who knows how to allow the guy to take the lead while she follows but also know when is her turn to take the lead.
Every guy has a favourite position in sex somehow. And its vital to a guy that his partner is pleased and pleases him in this favoured position. For him, it spells compatibility and if a girl rejects, there is no way he will be satisfied. Its like telling a pizza lover he will never be able to eat pizza again! Although sexual preferences can be adjusted, its hard to change because somehow its in the blood. Guys dislike awkward issues or siutations during sex. They prefer a spirit of openness such as knowing how to communicate - physically and verbally.
In general, guys love vocal girls who enjoy having sex. Seriously i believe there isn't a guy in this world who is not excited when he hears a girl telling him she likes what he's doing. "You feel so good inside me", "Harder baby,harder!" Such talks are erotic and guys like it and although these are things that are taboo under normal circumstances, they are perfectly ok in bed. Guys will always look at shy girls as boring girls, except for of course the perverts who just wanna fuck all day. Girls should not overdo it though, don't act like u're trying to win an oscar or something we hate it and may think u're trying to be some porn star.
Guys also love sexy lingerie. Some girls understand this, some don't. The whole point of wearing beautiful underwears is to show that u have a sexy quality that u yourself recognize and enjoy. It shows u exude a certain confidence that, in turn excites your guy. Guys often ask this question: Why does she wear that big, grandma-style underwear?! To guys, girls are supposed to have a sexy quality so what they wear accomplishes this. In fact most guys have their own preference of girl's lingerie, from half-cup bras to those diamond studdes ones, to push-ups, thongs, g-strings, brazilians and the colors as well.
Lastly, guys just like to sleep after sex mainly because its physically exhausting and tiring. We're not being ignorant we're just doing what our body wants us to do. So the final rule is : Hands off after ejaculation!
posted by mango at 2:08 AM
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Sunday, November 06, 2005
Blood Type
The koreans may have been the ones who started the movie 'My Boyfriend is Type B', but the beliefs towards blood type in relation to one's character originates from the Japanese. I heard its even normal for new friends in Japan to ask each other about their blood type. Nah they are not vampires or anywhere near that but over there, blood type is believed to tell alot about a person's character, just like the western or chinese horoscopes. According to the general beliefs, the blood types are classified this way:
Type A - calm, composed, level-headed, serious, reliable, trustworthy. Appearing aloof or superior, they are often surrounded by people of their own type, as they find it difficult to rely on other types. Most Japanese are type A.
Type B - cheerful, enthusiatic, excitable, self-involved, capricious. They always appear bright and full of energy, but they are often hiding an inner lack of confidence.
Type O - carefree, generous, popular, strong-willed, adaptable to new things. They are the diplomats, who maintain group harmony but occasionally make big mistakes by not being careful enough. Most Americans are Type O.
Type AB - sentimental, considerate, cautious. There are two sides to AB types: their behaviour is significantly less direct with "outside" people than with "inside" people who they are comfortable with.
Unsurprisingly, science does not support any of these beliefs. An individual's personality is formed by a complex mixture of genetic and environmental influences, and while blood group is genetically determined, any influence on personality must necessarily be very small, if it exists at all. Having said that, i still strongly believe in western horoscopes. The difference is quite big actually - blood types are divided into 4 different types only and there are so many people so how can many people have similiar personalities? Whilst for horoscopes, there are so many different signs and each sign is further broken down into male/female which makes it more realistic and accurate isn't it? Just imagine, if there are 50 people of type A living under one block would it mean all 50 of them are similair to one another in terms of personalities? That doesn't makes sense.
In case ur wondering, i'm type O and i don't think i'm a diplomat but the rest of the characteristics a Type O person is said to possess are all kind true on me.
The koreans may have been the ones who started the movie 'My Boyfriend is Type B', but the beliefs towards blood type in relation to one's character originates from the Japanese. I heard its even normal for new friends in Japan to ask each other about their blood type. Nah they are not vampires or anywhere near that but over there, blood type is believed to tell alot about a person's character, just like the western or chinese horoscopes. According to the general beliefs, the blood types are classified this way:
Type A - calm, composed, level-headed, serious, reliable, trustworthy. Appearing aloof or superior, they are often surrounded by people of their own type, as they find it difficult to rely on other types. Most Japanese are type A.
Type B - cheerful, enthusiatic, excitable, self-involved, capricious. They always appear bright and full of energy, but they are often hiding an inner lack of confidence.
Type O - carefree, generous, popular, strong-willed, adaptable to new things. They are the diplomats, who maintain group harmony but occasionally make big mistakes by not being careful enough. Most Americans are Type O.
Type AB - sentimental, considerate, cautious. There are two sides to AB types: their behaviour is significantly less direct with "outside" people than with "inside" people who they are comfortable with.
Unsurprisingly, science does not support any of these beliefs. An individual's personality is formed by a complex mixture of genetic and environmental influences, and while blood group is genetically determined, any influence on personality must necessarily be very small, if it exists at all. Having said that, i still strongly believe in western horoscopes. The difference is quite big actually - blood types are divided into 4 different types only and there are so many people so how can many people have similiar personalities? Whilst for horoscopes, there are so many different signs and each sign is further broken down into male/female which makes it more realistic and accurate isn't it? Just imagine, if there are 50 people of type A living under one block would it mean all 50 of them are similair to one another in terms of personalities? That doesn't makes sense.
In case ur wondering, i'm type O and i don't think i'm a diplomat but the rest of the characteristics a Type O person is said to possess are all kind true on me.
posted by mango at 12:08 AM
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Wednesday, November 02, 2005
Triggered
Fucking pissed, i can feel the 'volcano' inside me being triggered. Thinkings like these EXAMPLES below are just fucking childish and ultimately stupid :
"u went out with a girl what, so i go out with a guy loh"
"u also talk on the phone with him all night"
"i took dance with him cause u also dancing with other girls wat"
Period! Sometimes we do need to think and look deeper into every siutation instead of letting jealousy get the better of us. Take the first example - the guy went out with the girl and so she got jealous and went out with another guy. Shouldn't the girl at least see who the guy went out with or his reasons for doing so? Could the girl he went out with be his sister or classmate or some old friend? It could be, it could be not! The point is whether the girl would be willing to look at the siutation and analyse it before doing or saying anything instead of saying such a childish line like "u went out with girls so i go out with guys loh!"
I'm petty i admit when it comes to relationships. I expect my girl to behave like a lady and one who knows how and when to be self-conscious. I do not fancy her standing so near or close when talking to a guy and allow him to have his hands all over her. Neither do i like it when my gf come telling me things like "u had your hands around them also, so i stand very close to him when taking the picture". FUCK IT i'm a guy will i be taken advantage of? Ok pardon the vulgarties and get back to the basics - think and look deeper into every siutation. The so call 'girls' i had my hands around are purely good old classmates that i treat as my little sisters and the guys as my brothers. Anything wrong?
Right i know guys and girls are equal in some cases but it doesnt applies to everything. Just like guys will always be seen as the bread-winner of a family and girls should never drink so much. Of cause there are exceptions but chances are as rare as seeing a shooting star.
This's a personal quiz i took and i found the results bearing contrasting accurateness.
Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
(Accuracy 7.5 - i'm straight-forward and love solving other's problem but i don't think i'm anywhere near down-to-earth)
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
(10 - totally true!)
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
(9.5 - very true but i might also commit rashly sometimes)
The seriousness of your love:
You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
(8 - yes i like to flirt but but its always when i'm single. admirers hanging off my arms? I have to say this is kinda true lol)
Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
(8.5 - i may not seem the study type or those who care about their studies but in fact i'm very much aware of how important studies are but i'm kinda lazy sometimes so i don't learn that much as i wished!)
The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
(10 - absolutely true!)
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
(5 - that was the past, although i still dread failure nowadays i always believe in trying)
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
(2 - not true. I'm able to survive by myself but i do see independence as vital)
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
(9 - let u ppl judge this one but i have to say i am always in a dilemma whereby i have to decide between my heart and head.)
Fucking pissed, i can feel the 'volcano' inside me being triggered. Thinkings like these EXAMPLES below are just fucking childish and ultimately stupid :
"u went out with a girl what, so i go out with a guy loh"
"u also talk on the phone with him all night"
"i took dance with him cause u also dancing with other girls wat"
Period! Sometimes we do need to think and look deeper into every siutation instead of letting jealousy get the better of us. Take the first example - the guy went out with the girl and so she got jealous and went out with another guy. Shouldn't the girl at least see who the guy went out with or his reasons for doing so? Could the girl he went out with be his sister or classmate or some old friend? It could be, it could be not! The point is whether the girl would be willing to look at the siutation and analyse it before doing or saying anything instead of saying such a childish line like "u went out with girls so i go out with guys loh!"
I'm petty i admit when it comes to relationships. I expect my girl to behave like a lady and one who knows how and when to be self-conscious. I do not fancy her standing so near or close when talking to a guy and allow him to have his hands all over her. Neither do i like it when my gf come telling me things like "u had your hands around them also, so i stand very close to him when taking the picture". FUCK IT i'm a guy will i be taken advantage of? Ok pardon the vulgarties and get back to the basics - think and look deeper into every siutation. The so call 'girls' i had my hands around are purely good old classmates that i treat as my little sisters and the guys as my brothers. Anything wrong?
Right i know guys and girls are equal in some cases but it doesnt applies to everything. Just like guys will always be seen as the bread-winner of a family and girls should never drink so much. Of cause there are exceptions but chances are as rare as seeing a shooting star.
This's a personal quiz i took and i found the results bearing contrasting accurateness.
Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
(Accuracy 7.5 - i'm straight-forward and love solving other's problem but i don't think i'm anywhere near down-to-earth)
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
(10 - totally true!)
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
(9.5 - very true but i might also commit rashly sometimes)
The seriousness of your love:
You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
(8 - yes i like to flirt but but its always when i'm single. admirers hanging off my arms? I have to say this is kinda true lol)
Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
(8.5 - i may not seem the study type or those who care about their studies but in fact i'm very much aware of how important studies are but i'm kinda lazy sometimes so i don't learn that much as i wished!)
The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
(10 - absolutely true!)
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
(5 - that was the past, although i still dread failure nowadays i always believe in trying)
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
(2 - not true. I'm able to survive by myself but i do see independence as vital)
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
(9 - let u ppl judge this one but i have to say i am always in a dilemma whereby i have to decide between my heart and head.)
posted by mango at 3:55 PM
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Tuesday, November 01, 2005
Halloween
Thumbs up to this year's halloween although i could have done with some costumes. I usually find costumes a stupid and silly thing but this time i changed my mind. At chinablack's halloween party afew of us actually felt we should have go and rent or worn some costumes there, but thankfully Alan brought and Joey brought some make up stuffs so we painted our lips,eyes and nails black. Haha what a waste but there's always next year to look forward to!
At around 11pm the whole place was so empty that i was gonna switch places to zouk or somewhere else but unexpectedly the crowd start pouring in and the fun begins. Overall i rate this party 7.5 out of 10, hopefully next year's would be even better cheers!
Thumbs up to this year's halloween although i could have done with some costumes. I usually find costumes a stupid and silly thing but this time i changed my mind. At chinablack's halloween party afew of us actually felt we should have go and rent or worn some costumes there, but thankfully Alan brought and Joey brought some make up stuffs so we painted our lips,eyes and nails black. Haha what a waste but there's always next year to look forward to!
At around 11pm the whole place was so empty that i was gonna switch places to zouk or somewhere else but unexpectedly the crowd start pouring in and the fun begins. Overall i rate this party 7.5 out of 10, hopefully next year's would be even better cheers!
Darling and me
i specially find the construction worker costume appealing lol
bumped into QY there, i've no idea whats her costume called though
i'm the extra in between this loving couple...whose fricking cig is that by the way?!
the 'cutest' costume of the night - su wu kong (but poor him erin plucked one of the accessories off his hat, for keeps souvenir probably!)
jane and me (pls joey your vampire make-up on me looks horrible!)
HAHAHAHHA picture of the day!!!
c h r i s \ ____. says : i look like a bitch fcuk man!! (he already said the caption for me liao MUAHAHHA)
seem like we love showing off our tongues
there we go...
...lalalala
...lalalala
daniel is fucking extra haha
there he goes again!
oh man not again!
kylie's trying too hard to act cute (ops why is darling in the background!?)
woot ghost school girl?!
jane u stink so does man utd!! =D
jane u stink so does man utd!! =D
this is what we call acting scared!
daniel's trying too hard to act scared lol
wah joey luckily u got shave! ops!
alan & me are trying hard to act retarded
sibei extra! haha
sibei extra! haha
sexy sexy sexy we want abit of sexy!
this is why girls take a fucking long time in the loo?!
*pls* Raymond i really din't receive your sms-es at all last night i swear, maybe it was eaten up by some monsters! =D
posted by mango at 11:50 PM
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