Wednesday, November 02, 2005
Triggered
Fucking pissed, i can feel the 'volcano' inside me being triggered. Thinkings like these EXAMPLES below are just fucking childish and ultimately stupid :
"u went out with a girl what, so i go out with a guy loh"
"u also talk on the phone with him all night"
"i took dance with him cause u also dancing with other girls wat"
Period! Sometimes we do need to think and look deeper into every siutation instead of letting jealousy get the better of us. Take the first example - the guy went out with the girl and so she got jealous and went out with another guy. Shouldn't the girl at least see who the guy went out with or his reasons for doing so? Could the girl he went out with be his sister or classmate or some old friend? It could be, it could be not! The point is whether the girl would be willing to look at the siutation and analyse it before doing or saying anything instead of saying such a childish line like "u went out with girls so i go out with guys loh!"
I'm petty i admit when it comes to relationships. I expect my girl to behave like a lady and one who knows how and when to be self-conscious. I do not fancy her standing so near or close when talking to a guy and allow him to have his hands all over her. Neither do i like it when my gf come telling me things like "u had your hands around them also, so i stand very close to him when taking the picture". FUCK IT i'm a guy will i be taken advantage of? Ok pardon the vulgarties and get back to the basics - think and look deeper into every siutation. The so call 'girls' i had my hands around are purely good old classmates that i treat as my little sisters and the guys as my brothers. Anything wrong?
Right i know guys and girls are equal in some cases but it doesnt applies to everything. Just like guys will always be seen as the bread-winner of a family and girls should never drink so much. Of cause there are exceptions but chances are as rare as seeing a shooting star.
This's a personal quiz i took and i found the results bearing contrasting accurateness.
Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
(Accuracy 7.5 - i'm straight-forward and love solving other's problem but i don't think i'm anywhere near down-to-earth)
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
(10 - totally true!)
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
(9.5 - very true but i might also commit rashly sometimes)
The seriousness of your love:
You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
(8 - yes i like to flirt but but its always when i'm single. admirers hanging off my arms? I have to say this is kinda true lol)
Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
(8.5 - i may not seem the study type or those who care about their studies but in fact i'm very much aware of how important studies are but i'm kinda lazy sometimes so i don't learn that much as i wished!)
The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
(10 - absolutely true!)
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
(5 - that was the past, although i still dread failure nowadays i always believe in trying)
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
(2 - not true. I'm able to survive by myself but i do see independence as vital)
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
(9 - let u ppl judge this one but i have to say i am always in a dilemma whereby i have to decide between my heart and head.)
Fucking pissed, i can feel the 'volcano' inside me being triggered. Thinkings like these EXAMPLES below are just fucking childish and ultimately stupid :
"u went out with a girl what, so i go out with a guy loh"
"u also talk on the phone with him all night"
"i took dance with him cause u also dancing with other girls wat"
Period! Sometimes we do need to think and look deeper into every siutation instead of letting jealousy get the better of us. Take the first example - the guy went out with the girl and so she got jealous and went out with another guy. Shouldn't the girl at least see who the guy went out with or his reasons for doing so? Could the girl he went out with be his sister or classmate or some old friend? It could be, it could be not! The point is whether the girl would be willing to look at the siutation and analyse it before doing or saying anything instead of saying such a childish line like "u went out with girls so i go out with guys loh!"
I'm petty i admit when it comes to relationships. I expect my girl to behave like a lady and one who knows how and when to be self-conscious. I do not fancy her standing so near or close when talking to a guy and allow him to have his hands all over her. Neither do i like it when my gf come telling me things like "u had your hands around them also, so i stand very close to him when taking the picture". FUCK IT i'm a guy will i be taken advantage of? Ok pardon the vulgarties and get back to the basics - think and look deeper into every siutation. The so call 'girls' i had my hands around are purely good old classmates that i treat as my little sisters and the guys as my brothers. Anything wrong?
Right i know guys and girls are equal in some cases but it doesnt applies to everything. Just like guys will always be seen as the bread-winner of a family and girls should never drink so much. Of cause there are exceptions but chances are as rare as seeing a shooting star.
This's a personal quiz i took and i found the results bearing contrasting accurateness.
Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
(Accuracy 7.5 - i'm straight-forward and love solving other's problem but i don't think i'm anywhere near down-to-earth)
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
(10 - totally true!)
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
(9.5 - very true but i might also commit rashly sometimes)
The seriousness of your love:
You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
(8 - yes i like to flirt but but its always when i'm single. admirers hanging off my arms? I have to say this is kinda true lol)
Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
(8.5 - i may not seem the study type or those who care about their studies but in fact i'm very much aware of how important studies are but i'm kinda lazy sometimes so i don't learn that much as i wished!)
The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
(10 - absolutely true!)
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
(5 - that was the past, although i still dread failure nowadays i always believe in trying)
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
(2 - not true. I'm able to survive by myself but i do see independence as vital)
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
(9 - let u ppl judge this one but i have to say i am always in a dilemma whereby i have to decide between my heart and head.)
posted by mango at 3:55 PM
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