What girls want

I will probably have had afew dozens of rotten eggs thrown at me by the time u finish reading this post. But if I were to blog conservatively I might as well not blog at all. I may be a guy and for this fact alone people can say I don't have the rights to say I know what girls want but who is to say I can't be right either? If u can't work out which side to stand on, then simply read it as 'a guy's views on what girls want'. Everyone is happy this way, so lets start the ball rolling.

As in the entry 'what guys want', I shall start with some golden facts...

Fact no.1 - Girls will always have a soft side
Forget about how fierce, tough or rough she is when she's furious and angry. When she cools off her heart will always melt like mashmellows on a BBQ pit. They probably wouldn't show it but somehow they are feeling rather soft and this is their weak points. After an argument or a quarrel, more than often a sweet line of words is enough to completely melt the mellting heart. Why do u think girls are always forgiving guys then?

Fact no.2 - Security and Sincerity wins the day
The predominant reason why we see all sorts of incompatible couples on the streets. I always say good looks buys u a date but it's usually the amount of sincerity and efforts u put in plus how secure she feels about u that wins you her heart. Perhaps you are as good looking as Brad Pitt but u don't have a future as bright as Cristiano Ronaldo or a bank account as big as Bill Gates, so therefore she probably wouldn't want to be with someone whose future is insecure.

Fact no.3 - Girls are naive
Girls have a tendency to think things are as simple as ABC or that things could work out easily and that everything will be alright. They do the most naive things like believing their flirtatious partner's sweet honeyed words, forgiving him and entrusting him with her heart only to get it all broken into pieces soon after when she caught him perform adultery again. They either get influenced or believe easily - one of the weakest points girls possess. Silly silly silly

Fact no.4 - Girls are cute when they are angry
There is a reason why guys tend to laugh and say: "Honey, u look so cute when ur angry u know" and the girl simply do not get it and say: "What? Are u mad or something?" The truth is that when a girl is pissed off, angry or frustrated, their body behavior and facial expressions are somehow cute to guys. But of course it isn't funny when she picks up a chopper......

Fact no.5 - Shopping is every girl's favourite past-time
What do u do when ur down? Shop! What do u do when u've just received ur salary? Shop! What do when u looked into your ready-to-burst wardrobe and feel like it's too 'empty'? Shop! Shopping probably flows in the blood of girls like how sex flows in those of the guys. There's no limit as to what they can buy and there's no indication of when they will stop. Shopping simply makes a girl's day and the worst scenario is when they see a beautiful piece of clothing and they cannot buy - financially or with other reasons involved.

Fact no.6 - Girls love sex as much as guys do
As much as try to deny it (well they won't admit it anyway), it's a fact that girls love sex as much as guys do. The ones who don't are either nerds who haven't been sexually exposed to the adult fun scene or are simply mental up there. In any case, girls can't reveal their sexual preferences or they will be termed as sluts or whores. Hence they will never admit that they love sex - well almost all of them. And to put it in context, like everyone else, girls love having 'a happy ending' when having sex - orgasm. They hate it when their guy 'comes' too early and they are right to feel that way because such guys are insensitive bastards who only care about themselves.

Fact no.7 - The Knight in Shining Armor Syndrome
It must be the fairytales. It must be the dramas and movies. Either way, girls love to feel or dream of themselves as a lovely wounded princess and havng a handsome prince or knight in shining armor come riding on a white horse, grabbing their frail body and riding them down the sunset. The picture they paint in their mind is as fantasy as fairytales but hey fairytales do happen sometimes! It is right to say all girls at 1 point of their lives dream of their knight in shining armor.

Fact no.8 - Girls are bitchy by nature

Shopping aside, gossiping and bitching just about anything under the sun is probably what girls do best and the topics seem endless. It is incredible just how much and what they can bitch about to each other. It is of no surprise then that, girls whine and moan more than their counterparts.

In the real world as of current, there seem to be a trend going on amongst girls and it isn't very glam to speak of. Girls are getting demanding these days, expectations are soaring to ridiculous heights and attitudes are slowly but surely changing as well. In fact the number of ugly truths about girls can easily surpass the number of good ones about them.

Ugly Truth no.1 - Girls are gold diggers
And the guys get digged! No matter what they say, all girls are materialistic in some way. Tell me which girl doesn't craves luxury and all the comfort and joy they can bring? And these luxury are most of time in the form of Louis Vuitton, Gucci and Coach among others. In a courtship, the amount of money a girl actually spend on a girl is ridiculously high. These days, girls don't hope for but they expect! Where do these expectations stem from? From seeing their friends having boyfriends who drive big cars, shower them with LVs and all sorts of gifts of course. They need to do a reality check on themselves.



Ugly Truth no.2 - The Princess Syndrome
This is a very good example of a female trend. When one of them wants to be the princess all of them want to be the princess so if this were to be the case we would have a couple of thousands of princesses out there but where are the princes? They have probably watched too much of 'Princess Hours'. While it's perfectly fine for girls to think of themselves as princess because girls have to be treated well, it just isn't right to think they are real princesses and expect things to turn out the way they want or behave like some queen out there. It's this kind of princess attitude that sucks real bad.

Ugly Truth no.3 - Girls are flirts
Yes it applies to those who are in a relationship. When a girl meets a guy who ticks almost all the boxes of her 'mr perfect', chances are she would forget for a moment she's got a boyfriend out there or something and flirt with the new guy. Yes it could be just plain flirting, she may not have any intentions to go any further but still, it's flirting! And when they are caught, they claim it's just socializing and being friendly or that their partners are being 'too sensitive' or do not trust them. Yet when their partners does the same (what goes around comes around), they said it's unfaithfulness and that the poor dude is a big time butterfly/flirt.

Ugly Truth no.4 - Seeing no wrongs
As illustrated above, girls can sometimes see no wrong with themselves. No matter what, they are always right. In an argument, they expect to win and when they can't win verbally, they resort to childish means like throwing tantrums or using manipulative means to make the guy feel that he's commited the most terrible sin which in turn turns him soft and start pampering his princess even though she's the one at fault. I herby declare we guys can no longer stand this sentence: "Because I'm a girl!" To which I say: "So what?"

Ugly Truth no.5 - Girls think they know the world
When in fact they don't. They love to think they know, and refuse to heed advices given or worse still, label the guy as an irritating nanny but when things goes horribly wrong and those pieces of advices came back to haunt them, they are sorry for themselves and expect to be comforted. They promise to listen next time and so on but the next time u tell them something, it goes in 1 side and come out the other. Trying to be too clever thinking they know everythinng especially stuffs about the guys can only be their own downfall.

Ugly Truth no.6 - There is nothing a diamond can't buy
"Can I watch soccer with my guy friends?"
"No! U have to accompany me to go shopping!"
"But I have a present for u....*opens up a box*

"Come back as late as u want ok, enjoy more don't want come back also can!"

Ugly Truth no.7 - Girls are jealous creatures
We should start calling them 'greenies' for the fact that they are always whinning, moaning and most of the time it's due to jealousity. They can even claim it was provoked even though at times it's not.

Ugly Truth no.8 - Girls fantasize about other guys during sex
The next time your girl is on the verge of orgasm with her eyes shut, slightly biting her lips and rocking your 'boat', u have every right to suspect she's probably fantaszing herself riding cowgirl on Brad Pitt or Edison Chen. Or worst, she's probably fantazing herself making out with her former beau who gave her the most unforgettable orgasm in her life. It happens, why not?

Ugly Truth no.9 - The time of the month
The time of the month instantly gives her the rights to be queen for at least 6 or 7 days. "I'm having PMS, don't make me mad" can actually be translated into: "I'm the queen now, and u better do what I say and make me feel like a queenie!"

Ugly Truth no.10 - Dollars and fast cars hooks the hottest babes
They will never admit it. But the crude fact is that girls would rather go out with someone ugly but drives a nice car and is quite well do than to date a good looking hunk who takes public transport and maybe isn't strong financially. It's not a fluke, u look around and u see all these rich ugly bastards with the hottest women. There's a reason, and u've just heard it.

In relationships, what girls want is rather simple - security and happiness. People say girls mature faster than guys but that is not necessary true. Girls tend to be as afraid of commitment as guys do. They probably want a boyfriend instead of a husband. Girls tend to prefer enjoying their youth before settling down with the right guy. Even though they tend to expect alot from their guys without realizing it, what can actually please them or touch their heart is simply anything that is sincere that comes from the guy she likes or love. This simply means happiness.