The one who doesn't is either a mentally unstable person or a billionaire who can afford 10 Ferraris without blinking an eye. So why is it that no matter how hard we work, not everyone owns a Ferrari? A person could work like a horse or buffalo for donkey years 24/7 and yet couldn't even afford a Toyota. Destiny sometimes do exists doesn't it?
If u're borned into a poor family then it certainly makes it harder for u to own a Toyota. If u're borned into a rich family, a Mercedes is peanuts to u. But likewise, the roles could swap too. A person borned into a poor family may end up affording a Ferrari and a person borned into a rich family could end up on public transport, not even a Toyota. Now destiny is sometimes in our own hands as well isn't it?
For some things, they are destined. I believe in that. If heaven wants u to be a poor shit or having to suffer terribly before acheiving success then u ain't going to change that. If god decided long before u enter this world, that u're going to have a fat girl as a wife, then somehow u'd end up marrying one.
But on the other hand, for most things and issues, the ball is in our court. We decide how we want to hit it, where we want to hit it. There's only one ball, u only get a chance. A rich fellow ends up a poor man because he choosed to squander away his assets on...lets say gambling. An innocent person could end up as a scapegoat because he choosed to cover up for his friend.
The line between fate is rather thin. We always have choices in our life. In every siutation no matter how terrible it may seem. Choice is always there. And choice comes with consequences.
We all want the best things in life. Every girl wants a prince or dream man like those in the movies. Make no mistake, they din't got influenced by the movies, its just human nature. Likewise, every boss wants to recruit the best employees for his company.
But sometimes we just don't realize that we need to put in efforts for things to work. This is where 'the ball is in ur court' comes into equation. U decided u want to be able to shop like a king. But did u realize that aside from heaven giving u a hand in striking lottery, this comes from papers. Right from school, how well u do will shape ur path. U do well and u get a better job and u can afford to walk into any shops in town and buy any shit u fancy.
Having said all these, we do sometimes have our own limits. We can't just have anything or anyone we want. God is fair sometimes. If every human gets what he/she fancies then this world will be in chaos. Imagine a road willed with expensive cars. Imagine a club with nothing but simply hunks and babes.
I've a belief that what we do will have a consequence after-life. Lets say if u're a fucking proud idiot then in ur next life u'd be borned a poor slave. It happens, don't ask why.
Everyone wants the best looking girls or guys. Every girl dreams of LV bags. Every company wants to make the biggest profits. But if only god permits everyone to have things their way.
Thats the beautiful part of life. We shape our own destiny sometimes, we ain't even aware of it.