Carol told me this evening about how popular and infamous I've become thanks to some flaming stuffs in some girls forum. If it was to be believed, some so call 'ex-gf from np' posted something like how badly I stabbed her in her heart, how horribly I treated her like a toy and how much she wanted all the opposite sex to distant themselves from me. And that how popular I was in some clubs, basically yaba yaba yaba. It was also said that the thread was so 'hot' that the admin closed it down. How childish and ingorant I would say.
First and foremost its incredible that it was 2-3 months back and I do not recall being attached back then and even worse still having having a gf in my school. 2 - 3 months back I was suffering badly with my FYP for goddess sake! I do not fancy being portrayed as someone I'm not or for something I did not do. I may not have a big reputation but I have my own reputation and rights. Being flamed isn't something new to me but it really gets on my nerves. Can't those people in forums post something more meangingful instead?
Maybe I'm quite infamous and my unique name easily rings a bell in most people as they find it familiar but I'm not quite a player as most will assume it. I crap alot sometimes but that does not necessary makes me an insensitive and ignorant playboy. There's nothing wrong with flirting when you're single, much as many would consider it a sin or taboo but its not like I'm attached and go around sleeping with girls or fooling behind my partner's back. Being single means you're entitled to some things which attached parties are not and flirting is one of them.
Besides, it takes 2 to tango and 2 to flirt. I can only flirt so much if the other person is a flirt too. You get the picture? So yes I'm quite a flirt I don't deny that, I'm a pretty good one too to say but I know my limits. I don't go around breaking up couples or sleeping with just any Marry Jane or Nancy.
Many girls these days have this terrible impressions of guys being a nutcase desperate pervert but I will say not all of them are like this. A rotten apple does not necessary mean the rest of the apples are rotten too. The same goes to say that a bad experience does not mean the next one will be equally bad. Its really irritating and annoying to hear labelling guys in such a way just because of some real idiotic ones.