Food for thought

Miss J - i wan guys with HIGH EQ and sibei good manners dat kind
Miss J - den i wan dose kinda guys
Miss J - can teach me alot of tings
Miss J - very intellectual one
Mr M - ......
Mr M - go and die better!
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Miss J - u noe da one who woo me is dis kind one
Mr M - Hahaha
Miss J - high eq
Miss J - sibei good manners
Miss J - and tel me lotsa tings dat i dono
Mr M - can be just act only loh
Miss J - BUT
Miss J - he is fuckin sticky siaMiss J - ewww
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Miss J - i seriously don lyk guys who ccb lj nnb!
Miss J - i don lyk dose nerd nerd one u noe
Miss J - spore guys are boring

Okiee miss J isn't some chick or friend, she's someone close to me but i'm not saying who is she!

Different women have different taste. But I wouldn't agree that S'pore men are boring or not well mannered. Think about it, foreign guys can be alot worse sometimes. Its more or less the same - there are bad and good ones, ugly and nice ones.

Having a guy with high EQ, intellectual, well-mannered, well-do and interesting usually runs the risk with the word unfaithful. I'm not saying guys in that category are all the same but majority of them are. Intellectual guys are the most dangerous sometimes because they can easily read a person like a book or see through a person's mind like a glass of plain water.

I agree that being well-mannered is extremely important - first impression counts afterall. But if the girl doesn't takes a fancy to you, no amount of well-mannerness will please her. Its like saying no amount of roses will melt a girl's heart if you're not even inside her heart. Worst to come, ur courtesy and well mannerness might be misunderstood as being irritating or pervertic.

What Miss J refer to are foreign guys whom I don't really know that well except that of course they're different from local men. What actually set foreign guys apart from local ones? Daring? Tall? Ascent? Looks? Or interesting character?

Actually there are endless reasons pending on how u see them, well different people view things differently. But local guys aren't that far behind either, just a pity that guys these days are being themed negatively by the opposite sex.

A female had a bad experience like being touched, being 2-timed, or being irritated by those "hi can we be friends" messages will more than likely end up seeing all the other guys the same way. Its like you know, you pick up 4 durians randomly and when u got home, you realized that one of them is rotten but does it necessary makes the other 3 rotten as well? You never know until you actually open them up and taste or have a look, do you?

Its the same as how some guys see local girls as having stuck up attitude and find foreign girls more friendly and easy going. I know of some girls who just have a few very nice pictures or happen to be some XYZ Model and start behaving like Paris Hilton. Well, they should take a look at themselves in the mirror for christ's sake.