People never seem to think twice about shouting at the top of their voice "LOVE SUCKS!" when things in a relationship doesn't goes or turn out the way the wish or expects. When a relationship turns sours or ends, how often do we find ourselves blaming ourself? Hardly isn't it. Instead we always blame the other party or blame it on love itself being sucky.

A simple siutation : Boy wanna party with his mates but doesn't wants girl to be there because he wanted to enjoy himself fully. Girl already isn't please with boy clubbing so she got even pissed off when he refuse to bring her along. They argue and quarrel over it. A week later girl went partying with her galfriends without bringing boy along. Again the same thing happen. But did they ever tried to understand or think of the reasons why their partners didn't want to bring them along?

They did but they focused on the negative ones like: "Aiya he just wanna go there to fish girls mah"........"Aiya I not around so she can fool around with guys what".

Would such a siutation be avoided if they had, in the very first place realize and understand each other's intentions? Or even better still, know that their partners are clubbers and can't expect them to be homely?

Humans goes through a cycle where they meet new people, start dating them and get into a relationship and more than often enough, end up breaking free away from it. The root of the problem though doesn't lies in the relationship or the people they met. More than often it lies with themselves. Why bother to get into a relationship knowing u can't commit or settle down yet? Why get into a relationship knowing that the person is a jerk, bastard and yet hoping that you could change him? Naive! How about getting into a relationship without knowing the person well? Blinded by pure fantasy or love at 1st sight? Blame yourself!

More than often enough, and having experience it at first hand myself, ladies tend to expect guys to treat them the same from the start all the way. They would ask things like "Last time u would call me every morning but now u don't!"

Then they start thinking the relationship have grown stale or even worse, that their partners have met someone new or lost interest in them. Ridiculous! It always happens when girls reflect back on the beginning of their relationships, the sweet things their guys did for them, the nice honeyed words they get to hear everyday and so on.

Do they fail to understand that such a period is usually known as a honeymoon period and as the relationship develops so do people? U can't expect a company to grow financially if it keep on selling the same products do you? How about asking themselves if they're treating their guys the same sweet and wonderful way like in the beginning of the relationship?

Love doesn't sucks at all, its the way we handle it that sucks. Love blinds people but it's up to them to wake up and see reality. I'm having all the fun I could have asked for by staying single but I still wished I'm in love this very moment. Havng say that though, its no point pushing myself when I know I have difficulties committing until I found the right person.

Know yourself, your limits and your partner and somehow love would be wonderful. Being in love is afterall a more wonderful feeling than owning a ferrari.