Mango = XXX

Last night on msn with Rachel...

Suddenly, the last sentence made me sit up and think; have people's opinions and impressions of me turned haywire all of a sudden? Flashback to roughly 2 weeks ago when I requested for questions to be posted in my tagboard for me to post and answer in my profile page. Almost or more than half of them were xxx questions. There's even someone asking me a screwball question: "do u pcc everyday or weekly?" Then there were questions like "do you fuck every single of your ex?"

Firstly, congratulations to my new found unwanted tag of "XXX Mango".

And secondly, I want to argue my case.

There's no doubts I'm no pure angel, I won't deny this for sure but I'm no desperate devil either.

You don't assume someone is damn fucking horny and desperate just because he writes and talk about sex and adult stuffs openly. Do you go uo to the writer of playboy magazine and say: "Hey you're fucking desperate and horny!!" How about those local models who answer sex related questions openly in those Maxim or FHM magazines? Do you go up to her and say: "hey you're a horny slut!!"

This is the most problematic of all problems associated with most people. A person who writes or talk about sex means he or she is a horny person. A nerd who's always on his books is deem clean and decent. A case of "I see you, I judge you!"

Granted this makes some sense because a person who talks about sex and sex and more sex is likely to be someone who is.....

1. Open to sex
2. Desperate about sex
3. Have had sex before

.....But it can also mean the person is merely voicing out his/her views on the topic. I find it unacceptable that the stuffs which people love seeing or reading most are also turning out to be the most discriminating ones. If not for a strong interest or demand about sex stuffs, why do you think men's magazine always features sex questions answered by girls?

You love to read such things and yet you like to judge the person based on what he or she writes!

I'm a horny guy, and let me brief you a fact that is everyone else that exists is horny too. In fact I suspect the ones who are least suspect-able to being extremely wild in the bedroom are the ones who are probably the most horny and sex loving ones. There is a reason why people have to be so clammed up and discreet about this side of them is due to the amount of rotten eggs that will land up on their faces if they potray their darker sides openly...just as I found out!

A girl who writes and talk about sex will be deem a horny fuckable slut and a guy who talks about sex is said to be disgusting, gross and desperate.

This is the stupid FIXED logic that exists in most people's minds! Add this to the fact that people love to judge and assume everything like it's within their capcity and knowledge, maybe I should start keeping a fine line between sensitive topics and watch what I say or write more often from now?

No way! There's no way of that happening because if I do that it's as good as pledging guilty to all the accusations thrown at me. At least I have the courage to express whatever frank opinion out in writings and come to think about it, if everyone were to keep a tight lid on such sex and porn issues, the world would be alot more boring. So you should give us credit, and not ridiculous accusations!

There are people who go eeks and start labelling people as desperates or sluts like they themselves have never been horny in their lives before. Like they've never had sex before! Ok if you've never had sex before I really salute you. But sex is someone that everyone loves. You tell me who doesn't love a good satisfying round of sex?

The experts will you that the difference between desperates and undesperate sexually active people is that the desperates are people who go around hunting for sex, and as long they get their dicks to 'throw up' when it gets too excited it means they have fufilled their needs. The other type are the ones who do not fuck for the sake of wanting to fuck, they are the ones who do so as such that both person reach climate (if u don't know what this means, it means orgasm). And these are the ones who can usually control themselves.

Yes! Control is he word. If you can't exercise self-control like the hundreds and thousands of really desperate guys in the clubs who try to grope or rub their dicks on any girls they spot, or that you can't control your mind and fuck every single pussy laid in front of you even if it's that of a 14 or 15 year old minor, then you are a really fucking shameless desperate!

Girls are no different. Speaking of girls who say "wah lao sex is gross leh!" I like slapping them.

So it's not gross when you're on the bed moaning for your partner to "fuck me harder"?

Girls can just be as horny or even more so than the guys. Like I say, they can't show it or they will be labelled as sluts. Girls should realize that the better or more skillful her beau is in bed, the higher the chances of him being sexually experienced. And that means having had alot of sexual experienced before. If you still don't get it, it means he'd fucked alot of times before lah! And the same applies to girls! Bed skills aren't taught but gained through experience. Forget about porn, you can't learn anything.

Speaking of porn, I'm really disappointed when people say I love porn. It's so right to say I'm a horny guy but it's so wrong to say I like porn. I don't find the sight of 2 naked bodies that have no relations with me fucking each other on a screen a very exciting show. Maybe if it's a celebrity it will be different - at least it's a celebrity right?

There's nothing wrong with being horny or sexually active, you argue all you want but at the end of the day you're making yourself look incredibly contradicting and dumb. Unless you mean every single word of it when you say "No I dont like sex, I've never got laid before in my life and never will!"

It's laughable and show how much people really know me when they say...Mango = XXX!