"boy ah u nv eat ah y u seem to be thinner liao?"

"u will look more handsome if u eat fatter leh"

"aiyoo ah boy ah, li bo jak sibo? an zhua ah ni san?"

"ai jiak ho liao ka eh pui, pui liao ka yandao mah"

"aiyo boy ah y u still this size every year?!"

.....etc etc etc!!

"hey happy new year, where is your gf?"

"when u bringing your gf to meet us?"

"u don't have a gf meh?"

"don't bluff leh how can u don't have a gf?!"

"boy ah li eh chabor peng yiu leh? bo lai meh?"

"hey boy when ya getting married and have a nice baby girl like mine?"

.....etc etc etc!!

Etc means there are still lots more of such similiar questions or comments! my god!

Oh well i don't know whether to fume of laugh, i feel irriated at times but yet funny as well! What a way to begin the new year for me, fancy my family and relatives to be asking these questions! I do know i need to gain weight and i do know i will look very nice if i gain afew pounds but saying is easier than doing! Nevertheless i'm going to make this a MUST, remembering the post about 'Its a MUST'.

As for the bloody girlfriend thing its really getting on my nerves. Can someone tell me which part of me tells people that i'm supposely attached?! Not only relatives but even friends often assume i'm attached all the time! Damn damn damn i must make this clear : I'm fucking single and available but having a girlfriend is NOT the top of my priority list right now!

New year often throws up some awkward siutations and one of the most memorable one was me sitting in a tiny living room with 3 lovely drovey couples while waiting for my turn to eat!! I wished the ground would simply open up and swallow me at that moment!

Keeping in mind that my gambling luck is very poor this year, i totally stayed away from gambling. But i'm still thinking if i would be able to resist a big temptation this coming June in the form of the World Cup!

Ang bao 'harvest' is really bad as well this year, so i'd be praying more of my relatives and friends get married soon so that i can go and take ang bao for them next year!

These 2 days have also make me realized what a long way everyone's came. In fact every year i look at my cousins i would have this thinking. For Christ's sake i wasn't even aware that one of my cousin is already in JC, maybe because i've always this assumption that all my cousins are little kids in secondary school or primary school to me. But seeing everyone this year make me realized that all of us have grown up, long gone are those days where we were excited little kids during chinese new year and behaving like monkeys, running about and even playing void deck 'catching' or better known as 'police and thief' and other games as well. These days, everyone would just gather, exchange greetings and handshakes and sit down there quietly.

The younger ones will still make alot of noises but the older ones like myself would just sit there and interact normally with our relatives. I still miss those good old days during chinese new year when i was a kid though, the days where my cousins and me would run around like little monkeys and play so much that we refuse to go home!

Watching young kids playing joyfully without a single worry in this world really puts a smile to my face.

Anyway last night after visiting my aunt's place i headed down to MOS for the sho'down party with sze wei and grace and summer joined us with her friends later on. For the first time ever i din't had to queue at all to get into MOS. Now i hate to say this but the feeling is FUCKING SHIOK! Especially when i look at the usual long and messy queue, i feel so relieved and yet shiok! Thank you priority enterance pass!

The crowd was very lively and the music equally good as well. Singapore finally has a club to be proud of!